How do you forget your ex-husband?
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I have been divorced now for 6 months, but cannot forget him. He was never good with me, not even during honeymoon. It was a very short but very painful experience for me. Still I cannot forget him. What should I do.
Love like the elements makes huge changes. A person loved is a completely different thing than a person previously not loved. Love like change often is sad, and cold and bare… This is a goodbye song. It is a gratitude song. It’s hard for me to listen to. My love and I are in transition and I’m not sure why I resonate so much with this song. The lyrics… "I will wonder on how I was born the night I first ran away from you", make me worry. Do I want to leave him, or was getting a certain amount of previous distance a way to see our love in a completely new and expansive way. Either way the sad tone of the song fits my melancholy mood. I sit and listen to it desperately wanting it to tell me what to do, but it only whispers, "somebody loved"
The memories and pain will lesson with time. Just make sure to choose wisely next time to spare your self from future pain. If he was never good with you, why’d you marry him? Have standards for yourself and stick to them. You deserve it!
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You have to options, either to go back to him or find another man who can give u true love .
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You may not ever forget, but the real trick is to forgive. If you can do that, then maybe you can move on.
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Every time you think of him or an unpleasant memory of him comes up, you put a HUGE RED X over the memory and stamp it out.
You say to yourself, "Here it is. That memory again. I don’t invite it or want it any more so I’m stomping it out with an X. GO AWAY UNCHOSEN MEMORY!"
You have to keep doing this over and over and over, but I’m telling you, it really works.
Best of Luck
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Experience with getting rid of a pesky memory or more
hypno therapy
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Find 3 men….one (preferably gay) that you can talk to about men in general. They are still men and quick to tell the secrets they know. one who has money and wants to try harder by taking you out on the town, often. And one that is great in bed…just a good old stress reliever type of guy. Don’t get serious with any of them…don’t go looking for love from them. Then get conceited and dress your best…concentrate on your hair/nails/clothes and let it all be about you in actions…not conversations. Lastly, look for Mr. Right to show up. He will take notice of confident you and want his turn to fulfill the role of the other 3. Good luck.
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It takes time.
I would get out and occupy yourself with something, dancing lessons, a new job, a book club.. anything that lets you get out of the house meet new people (not in the dating sense, you don’t sound ready for that, just as new friends).
It’s really only when you are stuck at home that your thoughts return to him, and probably not because you really want -him- back but are just feeling lonely.
If there is something you always wanted to do, now is a great time to do it. Just give it a little time, meet some new people and start focusing on making yourself happy, everything else will fall in to place.
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Love like the elements makes huge changes. A person loved is a completely different thing than a person previously not loved. Love like change often is sad, and cold and bare… This is a goodbye song. It is a gratitude song. It’s hard for me to listen to. My love and I are in transition and I’m not sure why I resonate so much with this song. The lyrics… "I will wonder on how I was born the night I first ran away from you", make me worry. Do I want to leave him, or was getting a certain amount of previous distance a way to see our love in a completely new and expansive way. Either way the sad tone of the song fits my melancholy mood. I sit and listen to it desperately wanting it to tell me what to do, but it only whispers, "somebody loved"
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"Somebody Loved" by The Weepies http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQCWPcYD5nQ
Well you need to get him out of your mind…Why would you want to think of someone who was not good for you …You r living in the past you need to move on and look ahead not back…There are alot of guys who are out there who will treat you good and who will respect you
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Its early days… 6 mths isn’t that long.
Time heals all wounds they say… and this is very true, keep yourself busy, hang out with people whom make u smile.
Start thinking about your new life, and the new people whom come into it that will be good to you and make you happy.
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I’m sorry to say but you may never forget him. That is not to say that you may not think about him. If there are things around the place of his (i.e. photos, gifts, jewelry etc), that he gave you then pack them up in a box and put them away out of sight for now.
Take this opportunity to do or pursue those things that you’ve wanted to do (i.e. learn an instrument, exercise, join a club / sports team, volunteer, take up a new hobby, learn to sing,)
Keep in touch with the positive people in your life that genuinely care about you and support you. Talking with them will help.
There are books out there as well that can help with getting over someone but time is the best thing. Once you start focussing on your own life, you slowly start to get confidence again.
Whatever you do, DON’T rebound into another relationship. TOO MANY people do this and it just completely unhealthy. Good luck.
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I’ve been separated for a little over a year and a 1/2. The first 6 months are pretty hard. I feel a lot better now and I have an incredible girl friend because I didn’t rebound.
time heals every pain. make some good freinds.
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