what do you do if your ex boyfriend is dating your best friend?
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ok so my ex boyfriend jake dumped me for my friend emily and they hang around me to much!! I can’t seem to get over him I’m in love but he is now with my friend i shared every hurtful tear to i need help on what to do!!!!
They obviously broke the golden rule. She is not your best friend since she didn’t consider how you feel about it. He’s your ex for a reason so just try to forget him, it didn’t last because it wasn’t meant to. Just try to avoid them both they’ll get the hint. As for your friend I suggest you step up to her and tell her how careless that was and you should forget her too. You don’t need to put up with those kind of people in your life.
Slap him & your best friend.
shes obviously not your best friend.
sorry. :/
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If she was your best friend she wouldn’t be dating him! Wtf is up with that??
Tell her straight up
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slap the bitch
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easy explain to your best friend the situation she might understand or she might be selfish either way it cant go wrong
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Thats awful im so sorry i would talk it over with your friend because that is very unfair im in love and if that happend to me i would litrally break down if not i suggest you jsut leave them because pain only gets worse
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Stay away from them, they suck
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if that was me i would tell him a few choiced words and her a few choiced words while they are together . i told my ex boyfriend that the next qirl he says i love you to i hope you choke on them ! ha but just act like you dont care , they will eventually leave you alone . i just made the situation funny whenever my ex and my ex best friend comes around , i lauqh and just walk away lauqhinq . i know i love him and i love her but .. its just not worth the sacrifice .
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Talk to him. If he doesn’t care he isn’t worth it.
You could get another boyfriend and that might make him jealous.
Or just pretend it doesn’t bother you. If he knows you don’t care then maybe he will be like "Does she not like me any more?’ And that’s when he talks to you and you say…well I guess I want you back and you got him! Also, talk to your friend too maybe she will see how much she hurts you and will leave him.
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Experience
You should make you best friend in to your ex friend, Hun. No best friend takes away their "best friend" boyfriend. That is so low and also get over him, he didn’t care about you and I met he cheated on you with your friend hpw else did they met? My that girl Emily your ex best friend and find a better guy.
Wish you luck, `A
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She’s not a friend. No "best friend" would ever do that. Tell her how you feel, if she doesn’t understand then you don’t need her.
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Best way is to dump him from your mind too…….. don’t loose ur heart on him……..
it’s his bad luck not your……look for a better guy…….
I m sure ..u won’t be sorry later…..
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she is obviously a very selfish person, and doesn’t really care about how you’re feeling. you could try and talk to her about it, but it sounds like shes a spoiled brat who wants her own way. just think – if jake was with you first anyway, he obviously liked you more than her in the beginning. he isn’t worth it either though, if he was a good guy he wouldn’t have done this to you either. you need to surround yourself with people you know truly care. you are the better person here. :]
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Thats a Violation of the "Code"
Your best Friend should of asked you for permission to date your ex. and if she didn’t… The she isn’t much of a friend… I didn’t make these rules, I just follow them.
If she would of asked you… 1. You would of said yes you can and she would be happy and you would at least have the satisfaction of having a true friend that cares. Not to mention some self satisfaction. Or… 2. You say NO, and she would have to listen to you and not date them, knowing their is still some bad feelings in there and she values your friendship more than a "guy".
Your ex is a jerk for even doing this… so I won’t bring this up.
What to do? ? ? Of course not talk to your ex. but I would tell your friend how you feel about this and leave it up to her is she is going to do whats right or not…
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Me… a Guy that follows the code…
if my ex boyfriend is dating on my best friend.. i will do nothing.. his not my husband anyway.. moreover.. his my ex.. you have to remember that.. even thought you in love with him, tell your heart.. that boy is really not good for you.. what is the best in him that you really likes anyway.. you deserve better.. find another person okay.. i’m feel sorry for you..
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I’m gonna use some words of advice here and say GET OVER IT!!!
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They obviously broke the golden rule. She is not your best friend since she didn’t consider how you feel about it. He’s your ex for a reason so just try to forget him, it didn’t last because it wasn’t meant to. Just try to avoid them both they’ll get the hint. As for your friend I suggest you step up to her and tell her how careless that was and you should forget her too. You don’t need to put up with those kind of people in your life.
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Going through the same thing right now.
Well huney, first of all you need to get over him and move on since he does’nt want to be with you anymore and i know it’ll be tough at first but am sure you will do as time heals.However I can see that you are in LOVE but I cant belive your OWN best friend went out with your ex. Thats crazy
I feel there are 2 things you can do:
One: If I was you I would tell your friend to choose between me and him. This seems unfair on her. I know. But she needs to make her choice because I can see that you feel uncomfortable around them .
Two: Talk to her. I think this is a harder choice but at the end of the day, she is your best friend. tell her how you feel. If she’s your true friend im sure she will leave him. The KEY is not to raise your voice and try to have a calm conversation. Remember to practise what you want to say.
At the end of the day, its your choice
Gud luck!
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been there, done that